Using the language of virtues as a framework for shaping character involves more than just speech. It is a way of thinking, a frame of reference, and a “frame of reverence” for relating to others in light of their innate dignity. It requires:
- SEEING virtues in each and every person whether small glimmers of possibility or blossoming beautifully.
- HEARING people, using listening skills which call on your own Kindness, Compassion and Justice
- SPEAKING with the power of virtues- such as Truthfulness , Love and Gentleness
- ACTING with virtues- modelling the virtues we are helping others embrace.
Note: This does not mean being perfect. We may need to ask for Forgiveness or if we are having a bad day we can ask for others Cooperation, for example, admitting we are not feeling Patient.
The following is a simple introduction to the four key strategies of LIVE with Virtues, which when applied will help bring out the best in any community..